n Ns G102 one Recently I saw a story. There was a young man who failed in the exam, feeling depressed and depressed all day. In order to enlighten him, his family took him to a Zen master for advice. When the Zen master learned of the young man's troubles, he said nothing more, but smiled and turned around and took out a bag of seeds and told the young man to throw it away. "Why throw away a bag of good seeds?" The young man looked at the bag in his hand and asked curiously. "Spring is over and there is no chance for these seeds to germinate. What is the use of keeping seeds that cannot germinate? " The Zen master said. "but there will be spring next year." The young man couldn't help reminding, "won't they still sprout when they are sown next spring?" After listening to this, the Zen master smiled: "the seed missed this spring, and next spring, life is not the same?" This sentence finally dawned on the young people. In life, I believe everyone has such an experience: a lot of truth is actually understood, but when things happen to their own body, they will always unwittingly cut corners. In the face of mistakes, we can sometimes forgive others easily, but we can't let go of ourselves. It seems that only by constantly putting pressure on yourself and living in self-remorse every day can you be counted as being accountable to yourself. But in fact, in the long run, in addition to carrying a heavy psychological burden, beyond the more depressed, it will not be of any help to change the status quo. As the saying goes: "Life is inherently bittersweet. Everything has its two sides. If you look on the bad side of everything, you are binding yourself. " The loss of a horse is not a blessing. The so-called good or bad depends on how you look at it. Therefore, no matter what troubles you encounter, it is a compulsory course for every adult to learn to face it with an optimistic attitude and to untie yourself more than to compete with yourself. In fact, with the growth of experience, when we reach a certain age, we will understand that imperfection is the normal state of life. We do not live to pursue perfection, but to be true and calm. In a good life, we should not only "pursue" but not be too "demanding". We should not only strive to achieve "extraordinary", but also do not refuse to embrace "ordinary". Otherwise, hard work, busy life, but in the end farther and farther away from happiness, it is not worth it. I have heard a passage: "people who are good at using watches will not wind up too tightly, people who are good at driving will not drive too fast, people who are good at playing the piano will not tighten the strings too tight, and wise people will always untie their hearts." True maturity is to dare to comply with the trend in the ups and downs of life without forcing it. Is to know how to be kind to themselves, tolerate themselves, and live with the pattern and demeanor of letting nature take its course. Where there is loss, there is gain. Can accept temporary failure, there will be the next growth. Only if you have the courage to afford to lose, you will have the strength to win. There is a good saying: "Life is short, why not look aside and let everything go with fate on the way to getting old." You and I are passers-by, why tie the knot? Untie yourself and live calmly. Everyone is likely to make mistakes, and it is more important to learn from experiences and lessons than self-blame. Staying optimistic, adjusting your attitude and mood, and saying goodbye to self-pity is always the first step out of the predicament. Untie yourself and live a more forgiving life. No one's life is easy, don't take it seriously when you encounter contradictions. Entangled in a moment of penny-pinching, will only let oneself lose the original heart. It is a blessing to take a step back in the world and to treat others with leniency. If you relax your heart, the road under your feet will become wider and wider. Untie yourself and live a casual life. A lot of things, since it has happened, and then blindly entangled with remorse is asking for trouble. Clinging to too much is to imprison, to forget what should be forgotten, and to put what should be put. If you don't keep yourself in place, you can meet the new life and seize the happiness that really belongs to you. It is rare to be confused in a mature life. When you are trapped by troubles, change your point of view and change your state of mind, and the willow and dark flowers will be clean again. As long as you are willing to put it down, those knots that wrap around your heart will naturally be solved. Living in the present, doing your best, and letting go is the best way to achieve self-fulfillment. May we all cultivate a normal mind, make peace with life and untie ourselves in the experience of the world.

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