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there are three misdeeds in the bowl, three in the door, and three in the door.

the wisdom handed down by our ancestors can make many detours less.

there are three misdeeds in the bowl

Bowls of friends and relatives

as the old saying goes, "whoever carries the bowl will take care of it."

only when one is economically independent can one's personality be independent.

otherwise, he will eventually be controlled by others.

other people's bowls don't end well, and they won't last a lifetime.

do not carry bowls that should not be served, and do not be greedy for wealth that should not be greedy.

Don't hurt your feelings for a little profit between relatives and friends.

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as the old saying goes: there is no such thing as a free lunch.

the price of a gift from fate has long been marked secretly.

the more free things are, the more expensive they are.

seems to get something for nothing, and the consequences are often unbearable.

palms up, holding a bowl to ask for, that is called begging;

palms down, according to their own ability to eat, that is called hard work.

whatever you want, you have to earn it.

Bowl in the wrong way

there is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "unrighteousness is rich and expensive, which is like a cloud to me."

A gentleman loves money and takes it wisely.

you can't ask for hot money, no matter how much it is.

the wealth accumulated by improper means will eventually be taken away by people by improper means.

there are three doors that do not enter

do not enter the back door

one day you will find that no one can be trusted unless you are useful.

get in touch with him, go through the back door and pin his hopes on others;

you might as well settle down and put more effort into yourself.

there are no dignitaries who fall from the sky, but only hard-working themselves.

do not enter the partial door

No matter how tired or difficult it is, you have to rely on your own hands to work hard.

instead of taking shortcuts and taking shortcuts, we should do something opportunistic.

if the foundation is unstable, the road will become narrower and narrower, and you will not be able to practice your real skills.

taking every step in a down-to-earth manner is the best way in the world.

do not enter the emergency door

Zeng Guofan said: "there are many things in the world that are busy and wrong."

A meal should be eaten in a mouthful and done one by one.

it is better to be stable than fast, and look before you leap.

as the ancients said: things change when things are urgent, and things are round when things are slow.

calm down and you win.

people have three non-deliveries

people who don't make friends with selfish people

there is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "A gentleman is metaphorical to righteousness and a villain to profit."

whether a person is worth paying or not depends on the interests.

selfish people don't regard you as a true friend.

Friends are just tools for them to make a profit.

what they care about is always an abacus in their own mind.

once there is a conflict of interest, they immediately fall out and disregard others.

such a person must not make a deep acquaintance.

ungrateful people

the ancients used to say: the grace of dripping water is rewarded by Yongquan.

but there is always such a category of people:

just want it and never give it.

he takes it for granted that you are kind to him;

if you put up with him for a while, he will take an inch.

it is even more common to ask for a favor without repaying it.

for such people, it is better to break up as soon as possible.

people who don't haggle over things

there is a saying in Daojing: "when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people observe, there is no apprentice."

reject people thousands of miles away because of a little contradiction and fault.

if you take a long time, you will lose friends.

can tolerate the people of the world, can be tolerated by the people of the world.