duhaoshu I have heard such a saying: "where there are people, there are rivers and lakes." Every encounter in life pulls us into the same world, close to each other, and the separation of love and hate. From the first sight, I know very well that how to get along along the way will decide whether to go our separate ways or go forward hand in hand. Some people say: "I give you the spring light of March, and you give me the peach blossoms in April, so that the true feelings in the world can last forever." The older you get, the more you understand that being familiar, cherishing each other, and being consistent with each other is the truest secret of a long-term relationship. Gift In the book, the author Lao Yang's owl tells about his own experience: At a friend's wedding, a girl of the same age sat next to her. After a few pleasantries, the girl's chatterbox opened. From work to marital status, from constellation to blood type, and from personal income to family members, it seems hospitable, but it always feels too close and uncomfortable. After the banquet began, her question came again: what kind of books do you write? What kind of sports do you like? Do you pay attention to health care? Have you had a physical examination recently? Finally, he found the main point and asked, "do you want to consider buying an insurance?" He politely refused, but the next day he received a friend application from the girl. In fact, there is no problem with sales and promotion, the key is to identify the target and find the right time. This kind of first sight, that is, the "sense of intimacy" of old friends, is more like an invasion, unilateral pressure, which people avoid. Originally only met by chance, but it is easy to be regarded as an ulterior motive. Between people, the most afraid of no sense of distance, can not see the boundaries of getting along, causing annoyance, they are not respectable. As Lao Yang said: "once the behavior crosses the line, there will be no bottom line at all; once the enthusiasm has gone too far, it will look like a lack of kindness." The so-called "etiquette" is respect from the heart, a rule of self-control, and a moderate cultivation of words and deeds. A long-term relationship needs to leave gaps. Not too close, there is room for tension and discontent; not too far apart, can always respond and appear when needed. understand @ this is the story of TA I once made a video like this: In order to pay off their debts, the young couple drove a taxi, the wife worked the day shift and the husband worked the night shift. One day. When the two men handed over in the evening, the husband suddenly suggested: "No cooking today, let's go out and have something good to eat." As soon as she entered the restaurant, his wife broke free and walked out: "Why do you think of eating seafood? I'm not eating seafood. I'm allergic to seafood. Hurry home!" She was supported by her husband to sit down, and kept nagging: "our family still owes the bill, how expensive it is, if you really want to eat seafood, go to my hometown later, it's cheap." At this time, the husband secretly took out a necklace and handed it to his wife with tears in his smile: "our family's debts have been paid off today. There is no need for allergies any more. Today is enough." Hearing her husband's words, she wept with delight and stuffed seafood into her mouth. In fact, his wife, who grew up by the sea, was never allergic, but gave him love and understanding. And the husband, has been keeping this secret in his heart, waiting for the opportunity to change into a surprise. A relationship, two-way travel, only meaningful; mutual understanding, will be long-term love. The so-called "understand" is from the heart of understanding, is a deep concern, but also into the daily love. Yes, it's the dark intersection where he shows up on time every night. It was the bowl of noodles soybean paste that she prepared in the middle of the night. It's the umbrella on a rainy day and the clove of garlic beside the wine glass. Is not shed tears, but also never said that sentence. People in this life, the most rare is someone to accompany you, will not turn a blind eye to your pretending to be strong, will not regard your grievance as hypocritical, but always remember your good, do not want to live up to your expectations. Close Xiao Fan, who has been with her boyfriend for 9 years, is finally getting married. A few days ago, she made an electronic invitation with beautiful wedding photos and sent it to her circle of friends. Her intention can be seen through the copywriting. In the message area, friends were delighted with congratulations and blessings, but Xiaoling's comments were particularly eye-catching: "to hold a wedding, just send an invitation in the moments. There is no sincerity at all." But the reality is that Xiaofan has dialed the phone number that invited her. Looking at Xiaofan's previous developments, every comment made by Xiaoling has a feeling of "what is there to show off?" and "this little thing is worth posting in a moments." Xiao Fan posted a song she liked. She said that not every song we like to listen to. Xiao Fan sent a picture of her standing in front of the mirror. She said she didn't need to remind us that you changed your phone. Xiao Fan sent a picture of her grandmother in her arms. She said that if she was really filial, she would accompany her every day. Xiaofan's every expression, Xiaoling get less than that point, always with their own ideas to guess the intentions of others, one to the east, one to the west. But the truth is simple: I will send out electronic invitations and make phone calls; the song is sung for the people I like, the good-looking clothes are for myself, and the group photo is just because I like Grandma's smiling face. Moments, sometimes like small jianghu, a few messages can easily reveal the relationship between "friends", with and without a glance. Suddenly thought of a sentence: "Happy sharing the wrong person, it becomes show-off; sad to share the wrong person, it becomes hypocritical." Between people, it is easy to get to know each other, but difficult to get along. If the three values do not agree, a word is superfluous, a look can cause misunderstanding, the heart is tired and sad. The so-called "harmony" is a recognition from the heart, an appropriate appreciation, and a quiet achievement. People who really get along with each other have a tacit understanding that there is no need for pleasantries to meet, even if they do not speak, they will not feel embarrassed and wanton. The longer the time, the stronger the friendship. ▽ The Little Prince says: "Love is not two people staring at each other, but two people looking in the same direction." This is the case in every relationship. Only by not crossing the boundary and not contradicting each other, can we always accompany us and go further. May we all meet people who get along with each other, have no purpose, keep a good distance, understand each other, cherish each other, agree with each other, and keep going.

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